Editor:-
I was copied on an email with some personal correspondence between Claudine's mom, and her "sister-in-law"
I'm not going to post a full translation here, as I don't think it's all relevant to the situation, suffice to say:-
Johan and Claudine had a puppy, which has been in the care of Tina since the accident. Claudine has been concerned about the puppy, and has been asking after it.
Tina has assured the family that the dog is being well taken care of, and loved, and will not be disposed of in any way. The dog is in good hands, and Claudine does not have to worry about it. She's also not in a place / space right now where she can have the dog with her.
Tina's message also says:-
"We understand that Claudine can / will be difficult at times, (Ed: based on her frustrations with her situation), but we also know that the best person to be with her at these times is her Mom - there is no strength like a Mothers love!
Editor:- Claudine's Mom also describes herself as a bird that's been kicked out of it's nest. Their whole lives are upside down because of this situation, and I'm sure we all, their friends and other readers / supporters can understand why she says so.
She goes on to say that they are very grateful for the continued daily recovery that Claudine is going through.
Attached are two photos:- In the close up, you can see how weak, and brittle Claudine still is (Ed:- But still beautiful!),
and in the second, her cousin who came around to spoil her
with a pedicure and manicure!! This just after Claudine's exercise in the pool!!!Editors note:- This incident with Claudine has placed all the family members under a lot of strain, specifically because the healing is a long term thing, slow, and challenging. Seeing their loved one in pain is not easy for anyone concerned. It is a tribute to the love that surrounds Claudine that there is so much support for her. However, at any time that the situation gets too much, there is no sin in stepping away for a day, just to unwind and relax. There are more than enough people out there who are willing to sacrifice one day in their lives to be with Claudine whilst her Mom takes a break. I'm not saying you must, I am just concerned that the strain will take it's toll on you, and then you will be no help to Claudine either. You are a fantastic Mom, who has dedicated her life to her children, and in this trying time, have doubled up on the effort, but you need some "YOU" time as well.
Please take care, and don't be shy to ask for assistance. Blessings on you, and your family, and God speed the healing of Claudine!
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